30 CLUES TO CATCH CHEATING SPOUSES
Domestic - At Home
- Pay attention to sudden increased in time away from home
- Pay attention to decreased sexual interest
- Pay attention if subject is often distracted and day dreaming
- Pay attention if subject is often unavailable at work
- Pay attention if subject attends more work functions alone
- Pay attention if cell phone calls are not returned in timely fashion
- Pay attention if subject leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
- Pay attention if subject uses computer alone and secretly
- Be aware if subject asks about your schedule more often than usual
- Check mileage on the car when short distance errands are to be run
- Smell clothes for perfume, massage oil residue and the smell of sex
- Check clothes for makeup or lipstick smudges
- Pay attention if subject gets his laundry done independently
- Check Viagra usage
Records*
- Check credit card bills - check for gifts, travel, restaurant and "unspecified" charges
- Check gas credit cards - check locations of gas stations
- Check bank statements for unexplained payments
- Be aware of more cash on hand without accountability
- Check cell phone bills - pay attention to calls with long durations
- Check home phone records - pay attention to calls with long durations
- Check business phone records when possible
- Check telephone calling call card bills
- Check receipts found in subject's personal effects or wallet
* For assistance in getting access to records, see "Assistance" at the bottom of this page.
Technical
- Get cell phone voice-mail security code and check messages
- If you get access to the cell phone, check it for the last 10 numbers dialed
- Get pager voice-mail security code and check messages
- If you get access to the pager, check the page numbers stored in memory
- Check internet web browser history list, this is a record of web sites visited
- Check for internet visits to free e-mail accounts
- Check e-mail messages
- Check deleted e-mail messages
Assistance
- If you need assistance in obtaining any of the above information, contact Tristar Investigation toll free at (866) 4-AFFAIR (866 - 423-3247)
- If more than one of the above indicators are present, the next step is to conduct surveillance to confirm your suspicions. Contact 1-1 Advanced Investigation Referral for referral to a reputable, licensed private investigator in your area. Call toll free: (866) REFER-PI (866 - 733-3774)
